Friday, May 3, 2013

Fresh Friday May 3, 2013

I can't believe it is the first Friday in May!  Kansas City saw snow last night, with rooftops and yards covered in white this morning.

This may look spring-like but there was a sleet/rain mix falling and it was about 40*

I am so happy that the Fresh Friday link-up with Kat is back this week.  I had such a busy day today, a quick trip to the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art with big EZ, squeezing in a few students, kiddo pick-up and now I am working on a Friday evening as the studio I manage is hosting AcroYoga.  Phew!
But I wanted to make sure to record 3 things that made my week fresh.  Fun.  Fantastic.


1  Getting to do a style post shoot with a human (JF) as the photographer rather than a tripod and Camera+.

2  Cinnamon sprinkled kiwi.  Have you tried it?  If not, it's a must!

3  Baseball season begins!  First time to have both L and E playing for a rec league.  Monday and Tuesday were filled with baseball games and it was SO much fun!  I hope the rest of the season is filled with as much sun and fun as the first games!

Alrighty.  What made your week fabulous?  Link-up here OR if you aren't the blogging type leave your 3 fresh feelings in the comment section below!

TGIF!
Sally

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Irrational Thought Thursday

Okay, so, I feel like the term OCD gets abused and overused and it is really quite unfair to those that have OCD.
You like a clean house?  Not OCD.
You can't leave your hours or go to sleep because your heart is racing and you are panicked because one dish was left on the counter?  OCD
You drive around the block 1 time to make sure your garage door is closed?  Not OCD.
You watch your garage door close.  Wait 30 seconds to make sure.  Drive away and then wonder if it is closed.  An hour later you ask your kids if it closed.  You then picture it being open, a psychopath walking in and hiding in your closet, waiting to kill you.  OCD
You see children playing in the street and worry they will get hurt.  Not OCD.
You see children playing in a fenced in yard, well supervised, and worry that one of them is going to get attacked.  OCD

No, I don't have all of the irrational thoughts listed above.  Thank God.  But I do have a handful of my own.  Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is not just about cleaning or coughing three times in a row.  It can be an obsessive thought you can't shake, it can be irrational thinking that you know is silly but you still worry about it.

A quote from the book "The Woman Who Thought Too Much" by Joanne Limburg, describing the typical OCD sufferer:

 "law-abiding, conscientious, exquisitely self-conscious and excruciatingly eager to please. We set ourselves the highest standards, and we are disgusted with ourselves when we don't live up to them. We are for ever scanning our own faces for flaws and other people's faces for signs of disapproval. We cannot forgive ourselves for ever having acted stupidly; we cannot bear to make a mistake. We can be destroyed by the merest hint of criticism, but we criticise ourselves all the time."

That pretty much sums it up.

Alright.  So, if I continue with Irrational Thought Thursday it probably won't be as wordy.  I just wanted to give you an idea of where these posts are coming from.


Today's irrational thought?
Ordering t-shirts.  Huh?  
You know when you have to order a t-shirt for as a group?  For a sports team, a race, a school club.
It is baseball season and I have ordered a couple shirts for E and L's teams.
I order a small.  Unisex size small.
I have to tell the person in charge of ordering that I want a small.  When I tell the my size I always think that they are thinking "Whoa.  What?  She definitely needs to order a size up."
Then, even worse, when I wear the shirt to the games I feel like whoever saw the order form, and that I got a small, is looking at me, looking at the shirt, and seeing fat rolls or at least bunching and tightness and thinks "Yowzers.  Why did she order that size?"
I know, I know.  It's irrational!  I shouldn't project my insecure thoughts onto others, that probably aren't thinking anything about my size and aren't even listening to what I order.  Don't worry, my therapy dollars have worked and I can step back and see that it is silly.
BUT.
It doesn't stop me from thinking the thought.  I think it.  But I don't obsess over it. Too much.  I asked JF.  And my mom.  You know, just to see what they thought.  And then I let it go.  Well, and then I took some pictures and blogged about it.  And NOW I am letting it go :)



Do you have any irrational thoughts that you know are silly?

Okay, fine.  Tell me...does the shirt look tight? When you see me do you think I need a medium or large?  

Happy Irrational Thought Thursday!

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Workout Wednesday - Katie Jackson

Hi!  It's Workout Wednesday!  I don't know about you, but I have missed these posts!
Today we will be getting to know Katie, an Instagram friend and Forward From the Heart reader.  She has lost 40 pounds and wanted to share her story to inspire others.  I am always inspired by weight loss stories.  As someone that indulges in desserts and sabotages my "last 5 pounds" goals all the time, it is so nice to hear about someone that went the distance and got the job done!

Name: Katie Jackson
Age: 18
Location: Southern California
Occupation: Student
Find her:  Instagram @katiemariejackson



You recently lost 40 pounds.  What made you start your weight loss journey?
I knew that I wasn't at a healthy weight for my body and that something had to change! I'd always thought about dieting but never actually committed to it until i realized that I could be at risk for serious health issues. It wasn't about looking thin for me. It was about becoming a healthier person overall!


Did you change what you ate?  How so?
I went on a protocol called Ideal Protein. It's unlike any other diet plan I've seen before. You get to eat real food, and A LOT of it too. Breakfast was a protein shake with a piece of fruit, lunch was 2 cups of veggies with a source of protein and a source of dairy, and dinner was another 2 cups of veggies, with 8 ounces of protein and a small amount of carbohydrates. Before this experience, I thought that all diets were about counting calories or points and didn't allow you to actually eat, but Ideal Protein is completely different and changed my life!


What exercise(s) do you do that help you to reach your weight loss goals?
Before I stared dieting, I never exercised much and I knew if I wanted to meet my weight loss goals, exercise was crucial! I began walking more instead of driving to nearby places and doing more cardio like running on the elliptical. Although I didn't exercise too much while on the protocol, I've stepped it up and do my best to work out 3-4 times a week even if it's something as small as taking the dogs for a walk.

What was the hardest part of losing weight?
The hardest part was not being able to eat desserts. I love love love baking and it was difficult to make goodies for other people and not sneak a bite!


What is the best part about having lost 40 pounds?
Being able to fit into clothes! All of my "fat clothes" as I call them, were extremely baggy because I was self conscious of the way I looked. After losing the weight and being able to buy clothes that complement my body shape is pretty amazing. I'm not a size zero and that's okay with me! 


What are your top 3 diet tips for those with weight to lose?
1) ITS POSSIBLE! Don't lose hope early. It may take a few weeks to start noticing the results after you lose water weight. Don't sweat it, and keep on going because it totally pays off.

2) After you've lost the desired amount of weight, its so important to change your entire lifestyle. You cannot go back to eating the junk you did before, and you must exercise regularly, but giving yourself a cheat day helps a ton!

3)Try your best not to cheat! After you've lost the weight, a cheat day is totally fine, but even little cheats while you're still dieting can set you back days!


What is your favorite healthy snack?
My absolute favorite snack is frozen blueberries and grapes. Weird, I know. They taste so sweet and yummy frozen and you can eat as many as you'd like because it's fruit!

Do you give yourself a cheat meal or day?  If so, why?  If not, why?
I give myself a cheat day once a week where I allow myself to indulge in whatever meals/sweet treats that I please. I follow this with a day of very strict eating. Very low carbs and high protein and veggies help to not store the fat from the previous day. Having a cheat day helps me to not eat enticing sweets during the week.


Do you have an exercise that you just don't like at all?
RUNNING. There's a running gene in my family that just wasn't passed down to me. I'm not good and no matter how hard I try, it just doesn't work out for me. Instead I love running on the elliptical or riding the bike!

What advice do you have for those just beginning a weight loss program?
Stick with it and don't give up! The first few weeks are definitely the hardest and after you get past that, it's easy peasy. It's also awesome to have friends and family supporting you along the way, it makes it THAT much easier, and is pretty sweet to know that people are noticing your weight loss! :)


Are you at your goal weight or do you have more to lose?
I am at my goal weight and loving every second of it! I went from weighing nearly 200 pounds, to 160 pounds and I'm pretty proud of that. I may try to lose a little bit more this summer, just to trim up certain parts of my body, but I'm confident with how I look right now, and have peace of mind knowing that I'm at a healthy weight.


On days when you don't feel motivated to workout and/or eat right, how do suck it up and keep going?
On days where I don't feel motivated to stick to my health plan, I tell myself that my cheat day is coming soon! It helps me to not indulge in not-so-healthy foods and make smarter choices, knowing that in a few days, I can reward myself.

Please give a sample workout that readers can do at home and/or a healthy recipe idea:
My favorite healthy recipe is a green smoothie from Joy Wilson of Joy the Baker. Blend together 1 heaping cup spinach with 1 heaping cup of kale leaves and 1 and a half cups of almond milk, or milk of your choice. Blend until no large chunks of greens remain. Add 1 frozen banana cut in two pieces along with a tablespoon of peanut butter (or nut butter of your choice) and 2 teaspoons of honey or agave nectar. Enjoy!

Thank you so much for sharing, Katie!  I love your tips for staying on track.  Congratulations on 40 pounds lost!