As I was teaching yoga this evening, the rain falling on the beautiful arched roof, the windows shiny with rain drops, I was reminded of those childhood fantasies. The dreamy feeling came back to me. But instead of imagining and yearning for a future, I realized that I am there. I. Am. Completely. Happy. And exactly where I want to be.
No, I am not living the exact blueprint of those fantasies, but I am pretty darn close. Switch the apartment to a cozy country cottage (sort of). Handsome husband. Yep. Two beautiful children, that I bet would let me call them Annabelle and Andrew if I bought them a video game ;) I manage a Pilates studio and teach fitness classes and get to watch peoples bodies change for the better because of what I am teaching them. I am quirkily cool. I think.
It is hard for people with anxiety to be happy in the moment. "If I am too happy now, then surely I am going to get hit by a bus or come down with the plague." Thoughts like that rob me of happy moments. Over a year ago my therapist asked me to try to not have those type of thoughts. Instead of saying "But what if something bad happens because I am too happy?" say "I can just be happy and I will be happy tonight, tomorrow, next week."
Nothing bad will happen if I am happy.
Happiness in the Yoga studio |
Love this post! So glad you are able to drink in the happy times and enjoy them!
ReplyDeleteHi Courtney,
DeleteI try my best to live in the moment! Thanks for reading :)
Sally
Reading this almost made me cry. Wow, I feel the same way. It's such an amazing feeling to be struck with the fact that your life didn't end up the way you imagined it as a child, but it's still worthy of bringing you happiness- even more than you could have ever dreamed of.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I am glad you liked the post :)
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